Friday, January 3, 2020

Steering Your Joy

Personally, I do not believe that JOY comes from external sources.  Do I think that external factors can bring you JOY?  Heck yes!

However, I believe that being able to access genuine JOY from inside is crucial. So how do we do that?

I ordered a book today called, 'The Joy Compass: Eight Ways to Find Lasting Happiness, Gratitude, and Optimism in the Present Moment' by Donald Altman.  One of the things he says is that joy is a state of moment to moment being and experiencing. So basically, being aware.   Sounds easy enough, right?

Well, yesterday was a tough day for me and I knew during the days leading up to it that it was going to be challenging so I made sure that those closest to me knew where I was at.  I consider that a win because rather than burying my feelings and getting stuck in the mire, I acknowledged where I was at. Is that being aware?  I am not sure but I am looking forward to reading the book when it arrives.

In the midst of my day yesterday, one of my daughter-in-laws reached out to me with this video:



If you watched that video without smiling and/or laughing, I have no idea how you did it. haha.  You know what?  I felt a real, true sense of JOY when I watched that.  

Have you heard the old adage, "Laughter is the Best Medicine" Well, I think that there is a lot of truth to that.

As I mentioned before, I love research.  Well, research has shown that laughter can bolster physical health and reduce stress.  A study I read found that cancer patients who watched a humorous video had increased immune function.  Another study I found said that laughter helps stave off depression.  Do you think that is true?

I do!

So... laugh!!  Read something funny, watch a funny video....  whatever it is for you, do it!
#joyinmyjourney

 

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